For many families, reading becomes heavy before anyone realizes it. When a child resists books, we often jump straight to worry—Is something wrong? Are we behind? Do they need a diagnosis?

Sometimes the struggle isn’t ability at all. Often, children don’t yet see purpose in reading or don’t see themselves as a reader. When reading becomes only about accuracy, speed, or finishing the lesson, joy quietly slips away.

There are many simple ways to rekindle a love of reading:

• Creating a cozy “family book club” where discussion matters more than completion
• Letting children read aloud to stuffed animals, pets, or puppets
• Taking turns reading pages or paragraphs to remove pressure
• Choosing books that spark curiosity, not just meet a level

When reading feels relational and meaningful, confidence grows naturally.